十年可以改变一切，容颜、观念、态度、情感，但人的内心不会变：好比爱情可以变成亲情，性质貌似改变，但浓厚的质地不会变；
十天也可以改变，改变一个人的身份和角色，改变一个人的命运和价值。还可以改变两个人的关系和态度，但这些改变终究单薄无力，在厚重面前很快就变了味道；
十年和十天，孰轻孰重？聪明人看得很清楚，但却做得糊涂，宁可选择做傻瓜的人不计其数，最终看来真就是个傻瓜了；智慧人看得透彻，做得果断，也宁可选择做个傻瓜，做个伤透了别人心的傻瓜，最终看到也还是个傻瓜；
孰傻孰愚，只有问自己的心，这个判断标准因人而异…
我到底该做聪明的傻瓜还是智慧的傻瓜？
Sigh~
突然想在11年生个孩子，如果是女儿就叫依一，是儿子就叫屹依…YY一下哈~
虽然不经常来，但是自从开始写博客就是在这儿~~
经常的不稳定...
并且开始决定经常写博客，认真记录...
所以决定狡兔三窟~
另一个家地址：http://iamflyingalone.blog.sohu.com/
I am taking a one-week workshop directed by Greg Philo, one of the representatives of the Glasgow media group. He arranged a homework of writing an article about the biggest problem facing the old people in China for an magazine. We have a 4-people team. Though we interviewed 8 old people, we didn't get what i expected. It might have something to do with the choice of the sample, becasue most of them are the retiring old professor who don't have any dissatisfied problems. We coudn't do other interviews becasue of the tight time, so what we could do is just to explore the problems which seems to be. I am in charge of the 'time' issue and 'respect' issue which are as followed:
Kill the Time or Save the Time?
Time is a big issue almost every ole people interviewed talked about. Suddenly retiring from the job they have dedicated to for half of their life, they don’t know what to do and how to spend the whole day. The time seems to go slowly. They begin to think about how to kill the time instead of being tied off by the countless jobs every day.
When we asked how they spend their daily life, though the answer might be different, the way they answered is the same- trying to prove how they are busy and how the day is full of all kinds of the things. They go to the college specially organized for the old people, find a new hobby, and regularly meet friends who they haven’t contacted for many years, take care of the grandchildren, walk slowly, and even spend 2 hours on cooking.
An old professor says, ‘Hey, I am busy, really busy. I have to buy the vegetables, make the lunch, and pick up my grandson every day, so I don’t have much time.
How to spend the time is a big problem, however, how to prolong their life and try to save more time is another problem.
‘What is my biggest thing I care more about?...Eh, Surely live as long as possible.’
They care more about their life than anything else. They live a regular life, spend much time doing exercise, and spend much money on a lot of health products.
‘I spend two hours on playing ping pong every day. Health is the most important thing for me, you know? If you don’t have strong body, you could do thing.’
‘It is not me, but I know a person who spend all of his money on two things, food and health products.’
Time might be one of the biggest problems, which pushes the old people into a dilemma. On the one hand, they don’t know how to arrange their long free time, however, one the other hand, they want more and more time while they can feel the fewer and fewer days in the rest of their life.
‘Time goes really fast. I live along by counting the days passing on one by one.’
To Love or to Be Loved?
‘What is my biggest problem? I have talked a lot about myself. Now I want to talk about your problem. We need more respect and care.’——an old professor directly pointed out the social problem when we deal with the old.
‘Nothing is needed to prove it; I only tell you a story that exactly happened on me. One day I went out for my part-time job as a consultant in a private school. I know I am an old man, and I don’t want to bring trouble for others so I took a bus specially choosing a time without traffic jam when working people have to struggle for their time and transportation in the early morning. Regardless of my consideration, I happened to take a buy full of people. While the bus was suddenly moving, I couldn’t stand on my feet and pressed a young man’s hand against the pillar which must have hurt him. My apology was blurted out and in the meantime the response was given back in return-‘Are you nuts?’
‘I have worked as a teacher for many years and I don’t want to waste all my precious teaching experience just because I retire, so I spend my time and walk a long way doing the consultant job. I am trying to love people and do what I can do for the society, however, what do I get? I don’t need the money, need care with love, but could I get the least respect? That is all I want.’
What the old people said led us into a deep thought.
What should we do for the old people? What could the old people get from the society they have served for their entire life? Respect might be the most basic thing we could do, how about anything else, the love, the care, the attention, which all needs the morality and self-discipline of everybody.
We have got so much love from the old people, isn’t the right timing to give them all back, is it?
Yesterday when I read a story about a girl proposing to her boyfriend, without any preparation, tears came out. I always dream of reading a book so fast that I could finish a book a day, whatever it is about, but I never succeed. That might explain why I invariably fail to get the point of the book I have ever read, for I am always pursuing the speed. Instead, when I read English story, I could do nothing but read more slowly, even occasionally have to seek the help of dictionary. However, I find the happiness I have never experienced when I read Chinese books. Since I have to read very slowly, I leave myself enough time to chew each single word among the story, experience the true feeling of the person, think about myself and even imagine a fiction for myself.
When I read the scene, the girl barely spoke out the words how much she loves her bf; she was so embarrassed and worried about seen by people around that she passed the white gold engagement band to her boyfriend below the table, I could not help sobbing. When the boy proposed back with a white gold diamond ring and hugged her, I choked with sobs and could not go on reading the story aloud.
The story reminded me of the cute Sweden couple when I was in Macau. They are so nice and happy that you could hardly find any unhappiness around them. You can tell that they are happy inside. They are satisfied with everything, the job, the new apartment, the life, and everything. They are surrounded by the happy sunshine, which even covers and makes unhappy you cheer up soon.
The girl is Sheila. She wants to be proposed by Peter. But we just don’t know why he hasn’t. When Sheila went to the bathroom, Peter told me that there is kind of a tradition in his family where both his grandmother and his mother proposed his grandfather and his father. Surely, there is another reason that he is afraid of being refused.
Are you waiting for Sheila to propose? Man
Sometime it is confused, because you do not know what people are thinking.
The new blog can always be got on the MSN update news from different friends. I want to figure it out why they always have some ideas and thoughs about anything in their life. I know mine is boring and simple, which might explain why my blog is always like a desert field, but there might be something to do with the way of my thinking.
Like HH, she seems to have dreams everyday, and most of all, her thoughs are always different from others. I am wondering how she could be such thoughtful!~~
Anyway, I must find my own advantages, like writing English blog. Heehee
From yesterday, I began to intensively read some English news and papers from which I learn a lot different from looking through.At least I pay more attention to the writing skills and the way of expressing. Now here are some expressions I learnded from a paper about an American serials, named “House MD”.
In addition to
Particularly
Most of all
By no means
Variably
Maverick
Light-years ahead of others
Moral ambiguity
At odds with
You do not want to miss it.
I know all of them are very familiar, but I know them, they seldom come to me. When I attempt to write something in English, there came out always those several words and phrases. It is very hard to try some new and different expressions. So I should read more and try to put them into my everyday’s blog.
Here are two sentences about the love.
When love beckons you must follow even if its paths are difficult and steep.
You are never more vulnerable for suffering than when you are love.
I frequently think the Chinese is the most beautiful language in the world. The poem is a good proof, caz I find that it is very difficult trying to find a good interpretation for Chinese poem. Any language like English hardly expresses more beautiful and exact feelings with the only 26 letters. However, the former two sentences made me think it in another way.
Another thing, I will not give any shit word from now on! God watch me!
ZX走了。
突然辞职，兀然来京，忽然去武汉…她自己应该是没有一个明确的计划和目的的。但好在经历了一些应该经历和值得经历的，也算是有所收获，只是不知道收获之下有无思考和安定的心思。
我一直觉得，没有找到男女朋友的大龄童鞋们，或多或少还不想或者没有长大。始终坚持着什么，至于“什么”是“什么”，连他们自己也不知道，归结起来，就是还不知道自己到底想要什么，这甚至可以上升到人生观和价值观的层面。因为找朋友本身就关切其自身的生活甚至人生规划，始终找不到或者不愿意找或者不知道如何找，都是因为不知道自己到底想要什么，因为一颗还不想或不知如何长大的新？
因为不知道，又不想要将就，只能继续这样做剩人…可悲还是可怜，可敬还是可爱…
好比：LB、ZX、LT、LZ、ZB…我是其一。
“我一直觉得我的心没有长大”
看见LT小美女大早显示忙碌...
Me(胃疼中)：忙啥捏，美女？
LT：正在想该忙啥好。
......
我还是在胃疼...
早起，胃疼...
7：30翻来覆去，睡不着，又不知道干嘛
最后决定打扫卫生...
这几天一直约一个小时工，时间不合适，最后还是无法忍受屋子里的灰尘，自己做了小时工...
现在屋子里很干净了
可是胃还是疼...
原来不知道自己是如此的马虎…
做事太过随性和随意…
并且毫无原则…
这两天好几件事儿突如其来，措手不及，紧张的心总是突突地跳…
早知如此，何必当初！
以后做事要慢，快是我的优势，但是错误百出，倒成了麻烦…
做事不能随性和随意，要有自己的角色和身份…
不能总把幕后行为搬到台前，要闹笑话和出糗的！！
原则！原则！没有原则，等于失去了自我和规矩！千万要把握分寸，宁可过于原则，也不能毫无原则！否则搬石头砸自己的脚…
心别再跳，更不能紧张，关键是吸取教训！
OHM！
田耗是一支比较负责任的耗子，所以当萝卜被隔离带走后，耗子也自动自觉地做起了乖乖猫。
本来就不用坐班，正好有一个更加冠冕堂皇的理由蜗居作宅女~
通常最忙、见人最多、活动最多的周三也就这样悄悄地在家度过了…
疾控中心每天早晚认真负责地电话我一下，问候状况，上报体温~没有意外，始终在36.5上下徘徊。
周围的同学、朋友关心地问我体温状况…让我不要紧张。
其实萝卜没事，我又何来的病源呢？
当然小心慎防也是必要的。
眼见着萝卜童鞋的博客点击率从昨天的8000锐增到14万，感慨万千，网络实在神奇。
昨天我还能挤上空儿回复她的博客，今天基本就是石沉大海了。
看过去，评价自是褒贬不一，多数还是关心、支持和鼓励的声音，但对于某些童鞋的不明状况很是生气，例如：
拜托楼猪有点责任心好吗，猪流感在美国不是什么大事，那你就好好呆在美国啊，一般的流感是会死人，有些人吃饭都还会噎死呢。中国十几亿人，不防患于未然能行吗？
这么多写隔离日记，没见过这么没社会责任感的。
什么话呀？难不成各个国家之间都老死不相往来，那怎么可能？更何况，大家都是受害者啊，萝卜也没得流感，只是与得流感的人被动接触了！
不知道国外好什么!没事尽带点病毒回来,这不是害人嘛!唉,我不是说你什么,我就是感觉那些把不好的东西带回我们伟大祖国的人,就是在破坏我们的国家和人民!当然我也知道你们不是有心的!可我不能说服我自己!
注意，大家都是受害者！
应该把你和你的朋友一起隔离，毕竟你们这两天一直在一起，zF工作还是不到位！
我是间接接触者，像我这样的人无数无数，比如在地铁上的接触者，比如路边的卖菜人，难不成所有人都隔离？
我比较自知，自觉隔离了已经~~sigh
隔离程序有点问题,博主到京后的情况怎么没有继续追踪啊,同住的田卉和肖肖也应该被隔离的。
博主是接触者，并不是确诊病例，如果那样继续追踪，要到什么环节才是了呢？！
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